Fake Self Help Is No Longer A Solution for Trauma Variables

There is an issue that’s not being discussed honestly. For the sake of the point it’s time to have a flat out honest assessment about the community’s ability to bounce back from trauma. We don’t.

The whole “self help”, therapy, church, how we process success, “move on”, and then weaponize our support systems. It all fake. And the notion money will solve it, it won’t either.

As we see with celebs, influencers, and athletes that do access financial gains, they still end up crazy and blowing up everything around them. The envy of success, fear of success, the violent attacks of having it, something deeper is going on.

Too Saved To Care, Too Bothered to Save

The people who sell that they’re too evolved to be mad, are sociopaths, protected by the community’s false image of being unbothered or too saved to care. But in secret they’re retaliating, slowly destroying someone because real talk, many people are simply cult leaders with not enough IRL followers. Those unbothered ones, show up in social movement, politics, and policy development. They play saved in person but lead hate groups and invert their trauma on others through government actions.

The ones that evolve into honesty are painted as holding to grudges or “hot heads,” forcing the manipulators of the community to gaslighting, ruining our ability honestly identify problems.

Zombie Hordes

What happened when we start to see the obvious? Suddenly our mass horde of narcissists show up, blocking any chance to fix anything. That abuse then makes people give up trying, now being bit by the trauma zombie, and it suddenly affects our honest ability to fix simple things like literacy, relationship ethics, financial improvement. Now we complain watching the next 20 years produce a new generation of trauma infectors, replacing a newer false Godhead to instruction pathological improvements.

You Gotta Want It

To be in a headspace to genuinely improve you first have to believe you have a problem. Many people who experience trauma, there’s been this issue of lack of honesty. The more trauma the more dishonesty is sold on trying to heal. This false persona of being willing to want to better, and the enthusiasm of others happy to be sold the lie of trying, it’s addict behavior. Being sold the attempt of improvement, without quantifiable results, is why there’s all these complaints with no solution.

So if someone says they’re gonna do better, the notion of wanting to better is more about pleasing another person’s trauma. And the con artistry of saying enough to scare away an honest person. And the fear of what happens to someone who has the courage to say, the marketed attempt is “bullshit.”

Paying to Lie

Our community doesn’t allow honest feedback. And once money or the connection of improvement comes with money, winning, or getting that person’s way, all ethics and honest engagement goes out the window. Suddenly the concept of self improvement or self help is sold as an attempt to get enough people believing the trying is enough, without actual improvement. (Can’t say this enough)

It’s also not fair to simply say someone subjected to trauma is “mentally ill,” while allowing the social and systemic violators to not be seen as the source of the problem. It’s why people moving with righteous trauma, love blaming people who can’t process dysfunction or openly discuss it, deeming them as a “non believer.” So we get scared and conform to prove ourselves to dysfunctional standards of honest healing. We’re just not allowed to address it, honestly.

This is why we see people pour into jacked up business arrangements, relationships, or family dynamics, using money or coddling as an olive branch. So much is wrong in so many spaces, we groom healed people to break their own progress, forcing them to become repetitive offenders.

The reality, with so many spiritual taboos, Black people will bring up religion as the only way, but over a trillion dollars has been spent on church culture, and there is still dishonest salvation. Many people then start using gnostic teaching and education to present ethics on how to treat people, deemed not good enough only to traumatize through terrible operations. Suddenly everyone is justifying corruption as a necessary balance to prior trauma.

Those who skipped education then turn to the social philosophy of half ass new age beliefs to replace Church, only to turn into Natureboy variants. Suddenly everyone is an aspiring cult leader looking to find others to traumatize and it’s so cyclical, if it was a science fiction, Black trauma would literally be an Aliens xenomorph.

The Need of Money to Destroy Money

The journey of self enlightenment or improvement has been expensive, with the latest being therapy $300 per session, turning each visit into a 45 minute complaint segment. Because many therapists know Black trauma requires a complete total social reset, they listen but they’re not equipped to provide real tools to fix anything. So they let patients give them money to trauma dump, knowing the encouragement feeds into the lie, but it won’t stop the problem.

Religions will teach people how to soothe the abuse, that the pain of the abuse is salvation, and give the. examples of how prior generations glazed over the trauma. The reality for religious institutions (the OG social media hubs), they eventually become magnets for other traumatized people. This allows them to lead through distortion, duplicating more trauma on others, off the basis of Books from another cultures, mistranslated into their own brand of trauma.

But Why Is Your Eye Twitching?

With so many avenues championed to repair Black trauma, there simply hasn’t been a real solution because the trauma has created liars that create the illusion of surface improvement. Too scared to admit help is needed so, these people go into business deals, relationships, manipulate their way into other hard work and and exist in others space as a whole person, with a quarter of an ass action.

Honestly, success should have only been for people willing to be healed. Once unhealed people got a little bit of power, it tainted everything and it doesn’t seem like can get better. Success is ambiguous now. If someone toxic finds their way into in success, expect abuse. On a rare occasion when someone like this gets blocked it’s not because of territorial behavior but because they snuck in, unqualified and unchecked, they become terrorists to others success.

Riding Other’s Waves

The people who invade others lives, their trauma suddenly become a vessel of duplication. If you do the work, suddenly someone with unresolved trauma sees your fruits of your actual work, as a free sample. And yeah people being unfair sucks but, if trauma isn’t honestly addressed, family, friends, spouse, even your kid, you gotta start seeing them as the infected. Not saying you gotta cut their heads off but you do need to cut off the denial otherwise wise, it can change you too.

This false ability to provide a real solutiom to deprogram trauma and society’s inability to resolve the alignment, this is why the Black community can’t seem to function. Everything is plagued with terrible solutions to multi layered issues. Pretending to heal turns into failed cult leaders, sociopaths, and narcissist trying to pass off unresolved trauma as ambition, tough love, and education.

And if every racial, financial, and sexual caused issue doesn’t come with a real clinical solution, were facing an epidemic of dysfunction. We’re talking The Walking Dead, in the mind of many, leaving the living with having to figure out how to thrive in the midst of it all.